In a real world sense, I think in order to be happy you must enjoy two things.
Firstly, you must enjoy the process of building something. Anything really, as long as it is the process of creation, and not the glory of the product that you find appealing.
Secondly, you must also enjoy those moments where everything you’ve built up comes crumbling down around you, and you must appreciate that liberation from yourself.
If you can find joy in both of these things, I would guess that you are a happier person than those who seek peace in one or the other.
This is a metaphor for watching pornography on the Internet.
Eric Wong is a writer in San Francisco. He used the “female friendly” filter on most pornographic websites.